Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Mom the Nurse

Mom was a nurse and spent a lot of time working in her profession. It looks like, in this photograph, that she is getting crowned for having achieved a certain level or something like that. I remember many evenings, sitting around the dinner table with Mom talking about all the different things she had done during the day while working as a nurse. She spent a lot of time working in the intensive care unit at San Pedro Peninsula Hospital. She also worked in the emergency room for a while and also in the cardiac care unit. I remember when she started working in the cardiac unit that she would come to me to learn the ekg patterns because I had picked up on them while working as a messenger at the hospital. I had extra time during my rounds and would stop there for a little bit and ask questions about the patterns.

For a while, it was kind of tough when Mom was put on the swing shift because she would be asleep when I got in the morning to go to school and then gone to work when I came home. I remember once that I hadn't seen her in about three weeks so just before going to school, I popped my head in her room just to make sure she was still there. Of course, either Nanny cooked our meals or I learned how to make my them myself.

I guess, because she had worked in the emergency room and seen a lot of things (like me when I was a paramedic), she was pretty calm about the little injuries that we would get. Once I fell down and cracked my head open on something and I was bleeding all over the place. Of course, I thought I was going to die but Mom just comes out and puts something over it and says to me, "come on, get in the car and we'll get it fixed." It was just like it was nothing. I've pretty much gotten to be the same way.

Mom worked as a nurse for as long as she could before the effects of her disease prevented her doing so. She was a good nurse and it seems like everyone at the hospital knew and liked her.

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Mom and her cats

Mom loved her cats. We always had cats in the house. I think I remember hearing how when she was little that there were so many cats around the house that she got into trouble for it.

Siamese cats were her favorite and I have to admit that they are my favorite too. The only problem with siamese cats is that they are incredibly stupid when it comes to street smarts. It seems that we went through quite a few of them because they would get out at night and then get run over by a car. Every time one of them got out for the night, Mom would spend half the night fretting and worrying and calling for the cat. Of course there was always a lot of wailing and mourning every time that one of them got smashed. I've actually found that the best siamese cats are one's that aren't pure-bred but that have a little of plain old alley cat in them. You get the blue eyes and the constant talkiness of them but they can survive out on the street. I currently have one that doesn't look at all siamese but which has those traits.

Before I left home, Mom had her Siamese cat, Sam and we had a white mongrel, Tiger, another fluffy white cat, Tootsie which belonged to Steven.

The problem with so many cats, and especially with male cats, is that when there is more than one of them, they have an overwhelming need to mark their territory. Too often, you would wake up to the sound of one them spraying your door out in the hallway. Mom didn't seem to mind though because she loved her cats.